My uncle Gerald once asked me whose advice I’d consider if I wanted to learn all about war. He said ; “Would you listen to a soldier who came back limping after the war or would you rather listen to a decorated General who has no experience of the frontline and came back in full […]Read More On taking advice and learning from other people’s experience.
Welcome to the month of July, I wish you God’s blessings as you proceed with the different hustles you’ve been engaged in the past months. I hope you sincerely guard yourself from all things that steal your peace of mind ! #MentalHealthIsImportant and Use this month to; Acquire new knowledge and skills. Check on those […]Read More JULY 💃
The fear of begining says ; I am still young , I haven’t harnessed enough wealth /capital. It makes one believe ; my uncle , my brother – all my relatives had their chance of opportunities, mine will surely come. The fear of begining; Relies on unprogressive advice. Sets unreasonable targets. Compares the incomparables. The […]Read More The fear of begining.
Have you ever imagined working tirelessly hours to days to weeks to months to years without appreciation or value ? That’s what unpaid care work looks like to most economies in the world . Unpaid care work refers to all non-market, unpaid activities carried out in households . It includes – direct care of persons, […]Read More Unpaid care work affecting women’s ability to accumulate wealth.
I wake up at 4am , before I shower or bathe , I must start to prepare breakfast for my boss and his family because he’s leaving at 7am. I wash the nights utensils. I prepare some “chai mukalu” as I cook some tasty katogo because as you know , Tata Fay doesn’t like bread. […]Read More The pain of Caregivers
Before I got to know all about God and all. I met my father 😊 He’s one jolly man whose sense of humour will leave a lasting impression on you . I celebrate the man who first loved me!#FatherofOnlyGirls. You’ve done a great job in nurturing three responsible women. My primary school was a walkable […]Read More To the man who first loved me!
There’s no purpose in life greater than achieving inner peace with oneself. With regards to relationships, career or spirituality we all want a certain degree of serenity. A certain harmony between what we are pursuing and with ourselves. Inner peace (or peace of mind) refers to a deliberate state of psychological or spiritual calm despite […]Read More Journeying towards inner peace.
Many of us struggle with anger , hate and unforgiveness until we finally develop lifestyle diseases that lead us to an early death. Before you develop some or while you deal with them, I’ll talk share with you some of my escapades with unforgiveness and anger. Sometime back, I struggled with forgiveness. In that phase […]Read More I’ve decided to stick with love!
We live in a generation where if our African hair is not straightened or covered with a wig or weave , It’s simply not good enough. The only good hair is that which is straight . That which all black female socialites and celebrities wear . Natural african hair is a very unfashionable idea. Many […]Read More The politics of “good hair”
Many times our motivation tank is depleted of all enthusiasm and motivation and we find ourselves in a burnout of sorts . We can’t remember why we are still doing whatever we are into. Or we can’t move forward. We’d rather remain static buried in self pity. In this blog I bring you good news […]Read More How to keep your motivation tank always full.